Caregiving

Caregiving is hard work, whether it is for a loved one who has a chronic illness, disability or mental illness. Get tips and read stories about caregivers here.

Caregiving Sheryl Chan

What's it Like to be a Caregiver for a Chronically Ill Loved One (The Challenges & Rewards)

A Note from A Chronic Voice: To open, I’d like to thank Lucjan for contributing this guest post. I especially love to hear from men within the community, as their voices are pretty rare, yet vital. Lucjan is a caregiver, whose wife is chronically ill with fibromyalgia and endometriosis.
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Holiday Seasons Sheryl Chan

3 Important Holiday Checklists for Those with Chronic Illness (and Their Supporters)

Holiday Checklists — For When Chronic Illness or Life Circumstances Affect Your Holidays Negatively I've created some holiday checklists here for those with chronic illness, and those who want to lend a helping hand. Holiday seasons are a time for fun and bonding, yet they can also be stressful
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Caregiving Sheryl Chan

What’s it Like to be the Father of a Child with Chronic Illness? (Precious Insights from My Own Dad!)

An Introduction to My Father If there's one passion that my father passed on to me, it would be travelling. More of the rugged, far out type of places, rather than posh retreats. I will forever be grateful for the wonderful childhood memories he gave to me, as
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Caregiving Sheryl Chan

What's it Like to be the Mother of a Chronically Ill Child? (Precious Insights from My Own Mum)

Mothers are Life’s Ultimate Superheroes There’s no need to state the obvious I suppose, but many mothers are the ultimate superheroes in everyday life. They’re the ones who show up when things get rough, and showing up once is actually the 'easiest' part. This can
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Diary Entries Sheryl Chan

September 2017: Resisting the Urge to Stress Myself Out Unnecessarily & Supporting the Supporters

*Note: This article was originally written for my monthly linkups, which I've archived as it was taking too much out of me. However, I've kept most of the posts written as I realise it's much like a diary with memories that make me nostalgic
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Chronic Illness Sheryl Chan

Why it Feels Like Suicide is an Option When You Live with Chronic Illness or Disability

*Content Warning: This post is about chronic illness, disability and thoughts on suicide. It may be potentially triggering. Here is a list suicide hotlines to contact should you need help: *Disclaimer: This article is meant for educational purposes, and is based on my personal experiences as a patient. I am
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Caregiving Sheryl Chan

The Art of Supporting: Sometimes That Means Letting Go

“We cripple people who are capable of walking because we choose to carry them.” - Christie Williams What is the "Best" Way to Show Your Support? If I were to ask you - "what do you think is the best way to show your support to a
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Community Sheryl Chan

Advice That Could, Quite Literally, Kill

One Size Does Not Fit All — Doctor's Perspective When it comes to chronic illnesses and autoimmune diseases, one size does not fit all. Even our doctors deal with us on a case by case basis: “This drug works for him, but can she tolerate it?” “It isn’t
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Relationships Sheryl Chan

We Shouldn't Expect People to Understand

We Shouldn't Expect People to Understand – Anyone Who Says They Do, Doesn't Really The topic of this post might sound controversial but do hear me out. In all seriousness, how can anyone understand something that they've never experienced, even if they tried to? Anyone
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